I need honest advice. I married a woman who hid that she had a child from a previous marriage—I found out five months in.
I tried to uplift her. I helped her find a good job, but she saved nothing. She spent her earnings on her family and traveled every weekend without telling me. She later became arrogant and lost the job.
Back home, I asked what she wanted to do. She said hospitality, so I paid for her certificate. She never used it. I then gave her capital for a handbag business—she squandered it.
Now, without telling me, she enrolled in a CNA course and expects me to pay fees. I already cover her child’s school fees, rent, food, and family obligations. Meanwhile, even intimacy has become a problem - starved like an irresponsible man.
I feel strained and ready to leave this marriage. Please advise. TIA."